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Resentment Created an Accident

Anger Eraser Part I

An accident that was blessing in disguise

Everybody will have at least one major turning point in their life, sometimes more than one. I had one too in the form of an accident, in 2005.

Without going to the details of the accident, I wanted to share my experiences, related to my healing during that period.

Minor diseases in plenty

Post-accident I was having severe cold, cough, dizziness’ and other minor ailments. The only issue is that after fixing one, I will get another. For example, if I took some remedies to fix my cold, immediately after fixing it, I will get dizziness. Then I will be immobile for two hours.

Once that is fixed soon after that, I will get dry cough and so on. This was proving quite annoying and uncomfortable for me. I was on sick leave for more than a month and nothing seems to be improving.

Resentment about my family members

One day on a flash, I told Naran that I have a deep resentment about my family members and I consider them unfair in relation with me.

Whether they are unfair or not or whether I am fair in saying doesn’t matter here. The point of the matter is that I have resentment and that has to be fixed.

So Balakumar asked me to take the Bach Flower Remedy WILLOW whenever I feel angry about my people. As soon as I started taking it, all my episodes of the diseases stopped to a greater extent. They did come, but at a minor scale.

Moral of the story

I need to be healed irrespective of my life situation to fix the problems – physical or social. What is required here is that I need to fix my mental state.

I did that. And it changed my life a lot.

Please refer this link to read about the second article in the series – “Remove My Angry Instinct – Anger Eraser Part II”: http://wp.me/ptUKY-6D

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I need to gain confidence

I am a teacher, I teach well to my students, but if some observers come from outside, to observe my class, I becomes so upset and my mouth becomes so dry and have difficulty in talking also.  What should I do?

Mrs S.

When somebody comes you are losing confidence and you can pray to Larch and Hornbeam (Bach Flower Remedies) at that time. Call them for help and ask them to increase your confidence.

You would be alright.

Naran

How do we find a good house for rent?

Please advice me for getting a house for rent, within our budget.

In addition, it should be of our choice.

Nayana

Chant, “Cerato Mimulus Find Divine House”

Naran

Explanation

Cerato and Mimulus are Bach Flower Remedies, while Find and Divine are Switch Words.

Cerato: when you are searching for something

Mimulus: when you want your expenditure to be within the budget, for example you want the wedding expenses to be within your budget.

Find: to find the object of your choice

Divine: by miracle, by luck

House: for rent. This is not a switch word, but the goal or objective.

My mind and body is not in coordination

Dear Naran

Yesterday I had this strange experience.

As I was sleeping in the morning, for some more time, feeling very tired, in spite of my daughter and husband, who had woken up already. My husband told me that it’s ok for me to sleep, for some more time.

After a few minutes, I wanted to wake up, but could not. I yelled my husband’s name and called him, but he did not turn up at all. My daughter saw me yelling and came near me. In addition, my husband also came, and they tried to make me get up with great difficulty.

And suddenly, I opened my eyes, only to realize that all those five minutes were a dream. But, that dream was pathetic. I got really scared, if I would really be able to get up.

This is not the first time that has happened to me like that.

My mom, when I discussed with her said, that it happens like that when you are really tired. Our body does not get up even though our mind gets up. Naran, could you please explain more on why this happens?

Dear J,
Yes what your mom says is right. There was no co-ordination between mind and body. It is an inner cry for help. Release this.

In addition, take the Bach Flower Remedies Aspen and Clematis before sleeping.

Explanation

Aspen: for nightmares

Clematis: when the mind and body is not in co-ordination

Handling Post-operative Treatments

Nayana

Please suggest some mantra for my mother, as she has undergone minor surgery during August 2010.

On her right foot, due to inflammation – post-operation, is worsening the situation. Like if she walks for 10 minutes she is getting swelling and pain.

She is taking antibiotics but of no use.

Naran

Ask her to take Star of Bethlehem, the Bach Flower Remedy. It will help her. After any surgery, this flower is helpful to heal the surgical wound(s).

Post-accident Treatment

R Mohan

Few years back I met with an accident. My colleague Smitha called Naran and sought his help, on my behalf. He suggested me to take Rescue Remedy (it is a combination of the Bach Flower Remedies Rock rose, Impatiens, Clematis, Star of Bethlehem and Cherry Plum).

I was in ICU. I got discharged after three days. Naran asked me to take the Rescue Remedy for at least two months.

After two weeks, I went to the hospital once again for a check-up. The doctor over there asked me whether I had any other treatment as my wounds seems to have healed faster and I look better too. I smiled and said no.

Naran

Rescue Remedy if taken before surgery, the patient will be stable. Bleeding during surgery will be less. Then it can be continued post operatively to speed up the healing or surgical wound(s).

My job was made easy…

R Mohan

Suddenly we were required to complete multiple jobs, with tight timelines.

I remembered the combination mentioned to me one day by Shobana. It is a Bach Flower Remedy combination, “Elm Oak Hornbeam”.

This can be used if we have to do lot of stuff (Elm – overwhelmed) and we are not sure whether we can complete the job (Hornbeam). So we may require extra resources that we don’t use normally. To put it simple we need work smarter than usual (Oak).

I went back home thinking about this, when I went back home. As there was a time element involved (to do it faster – Impatiens), I chanted the combination, “ELM OAK HORNBEAM IMPATIENS”.

Next day morning, when I went to my office, my associate approached me and suggested me that we could follow a specific approach to do the work, which I am sure would make our jobs easier.

Now, I know who made my job easy!!!

Bach Flower Remedy Combinations Monthly Meeting Aug 2010

Useful Combinations

I am not an optimist: take Bach Flower Remedies Gentian, Larch and Pine

For meditation: Clematis and (gem remedy) Amethyst

To Spend money within the budget – Mimulus.

Getting your money back

Take Chicory, Rock water, Chestnut bud, Vine and Sweet Chestnut – for getting the money back.

Traits of arrogance and stubbornness (in not paying the money) can be seen in Rock Water and Vine.

Chicory for one being possessive about money. Those who are in negative traits of chicory will not easily pay back what they received as loan.

Chestnut bud for escaping tendencies.

These remedies will help you to collect the money.

Write your name as well as that of the opposite person, and the names of the flowers. Everyday see the paper.

Self motivation

Hornbeam, Wild rose, Gentian and (another type of flower remedy) Hibiscus: to have enthusiasm in our work  and be optimistic as well.

Attract loving people

To attract only loving people: Holly, (gem remedy) Kunzite.

Kunzite will open up the Heart chakra. Keyword for Kunzite is compassion. It’s a very costly stone somewhere between 5 to 10 thousand rupees. In addition, it is very difficult to get the right stone and it is rarely available in USA. But this is available as pills in the Bach Flower Study Centre, Chennai.

Negotiation Pack

Keep Beech, Walnut and Chestnut bud in the room, where negotiation takes place. If you expect a conflict during the negotiation, add Agrimony to the combination.

Land Dispute

You want to leave the land without any dispute or encroachment – Agrimony

Somebody is possessive of your land and not giving it up – Chicory and Vine

We curse them because he is not leaving – Willow

They have stubbornness – Rock water

He will say that he will go, but won’t go – Chestnut bud

Demanding a lot of money to vacate the land: Chicory

For any issues with land, chant the mantra “Namashivayam”. Somebody has usurped the house, chant Namashivayam. Whenever you think about them chant this mantra.

Recruit a staff member

You want to select a person. There are many who are competent enough to fill up the post. Your mental state could be one of these:

We are desperately trying to get good staff – Sweet chestnut

I only want the people I want – atypical expression of those who need Water violet. The plant of the flower Water violet is inside the water. In the same way,the Water Violet person is within his shell. To come out of the shell, one needs Water violet. You will attract the person/place of your choice.

Our search is not producing the result we want – Oak (by taking it we would try differently)

Cerato to end the search.

Bach Flower Remedies Combinations Discussed at Raj Bhavan Meeting

 Life Situation                                                    Remedies Suggested

For people to loose weight Oak, Crab Apple and Rock Water. Do Fire Mudra too (ring finger touching the base of the thumb on both hands). This will help you to reduce your weight.  You will be able to reduce 2 to 3 kg a month.
Whenever mothers are worried about the children Red Chestnut
Lazy and procrastinating Scleranthus, Hornbeam.
For pilgrimage tour Gorse and Clematis. You will have a wonderful trip.
For any skin problem Crab Apple.
So many things have to be done. However, time is short Elm, Rescue Remedy. Everything will be finished comfortably.
Creative ideas White Chestnut, Clematis
Fear of going to a doctor Mimulus
Abundance and prosperity Chicory, Gentian and Clematis
For the other person to be honest with you Chestnut bud
If you feel lonely Water Violet
For heart problem Elm, Oak and Olive: one dose will keep your heart healthy
Too much of anger, uncontrollable anger Holly, Willow and Rescue Remedy. This combination will tone down the anger of the persons involved.

 

Bonding and Healing Relationships with Red Rose

My most respected teacher Balakumar,

I wish to share with you in detail the miracle that has occurred today in our home. I want this to be shared with all our friends and learners so that their faith in flowers and healing will be doubled.

Yesterday I called Naran at noon. My mother aged 84, has been in a very angry mood past 2 weeks. She has been rude to the helpers / attendant – who are threatening to leave. I tried all the healing methods taught to me by Naran and felt I must not bother him with this.

But yesterday when things went out of hand, I phoned him. Within a minute after listening to my long story, he just said, “Put (Bach Flower Remedies) Chicory, Holly and Willow for your mother. Place Red Rose flower in water in her room – maybe under her bed or wherever she sits. Change the Rose after every three days. All will be well. You will see the change”.

I have only Chicory at home. We live in Kanchipuram and I had no way of getting the other two flower essences.  I just began chanting them keeping my mother in mind. I prayed to the flowers to go to her and heal her. My husband and my friend Vasanthi – who stays upstairs, also began chanting.

At night Amma (mother) went to sleep saying she will call her bank tomorrow. See how much money she has and decide whether to continue living with us or move out on her own. She does not want the helpers but wants me to do everything for her. This is difficult since I have to go out of the house for work, travel etc for long periods sometimes and she is not able to do anything for herself. This was a very delicate situation since we cannot send our 84-year old mother away anywhere.

We fervently prayed at night and kept chanting of three Bach Flowers going. I filled her water bottle with Chicory and Walnut. In addition, I intended Holly and Willow, keeping my hands around the bottle. I also put Sun symbol on the bottle and desperately asked for help!

This morning she was still angry but quiet. I was wondering how and where to get Red Rose in Kanchipuram.  Vasanthi said she will ask teachers in school and tell me. I was sipping my first cup of tea outside, when I saw the flower seller with her basket calling at the neighbour’s house. I have seen her rarely. Today being Friday she was there. I saw only Saamandi flowers in her basket.  I was just about to ask her where to get Red Rose, when she looked at me and said, “Amma you never buy flowers. Do you want some red roses?” I was taken aback. She showed me five roses in her basket – all of them being red. I bought them, placed them in water and put them in mother’s room.

I felt a surge of gratitude in my heart for the kindness of the flowers. The power of intent and genuine prayer made them come home to us. It also made us aware that the UNIVERSE is HEARING us all the time.

 Amma had her bath and sat for her Pooja. She was still angry!

I was so surprised a little later when a teacher from the school came home and said, “Elder Sister, I am on my way to school, here are some Red Roses for your pooja. It is my wedding day today, Please bless us!” She brought 3 beautiful cut red roses! I placed them in water in front of (Aurobindo) MOTHER’S Picture where Amma comes and sits near the dining table.  I couldn’t speak for a while.

At 10 am, Amma called the banker and spoke with him. She called me to her room at 11 am.  She said, “I have talked with the banker, I realise that the interest I get monthly is not enough to sustain me anywhere. You are taking care of all my needs, feeding me so well, caring for me and even taking care of my servants. I am grateful to you and (my husband) Guru for this.  I will not go anywhere. I understand how difficult it is for you, when I get angry with the helpers. I shall try to be kind and will do what I can to make life easier for you.  In fact, I am a very practical person, so I want to continue living here. I want Guru and you to go wherever you need to. Don’t worry about me. I will manage with all the helpers you have provided”.

Please readers, I am NOT EXAGGERATING, This is EXACTLY what happened. If this is NOT the power of the flowers, then what is it? My Humble Pranams to Balakumar, our teacher, to the flowers and to the Healing Angels. I feel so humbled by this experience and also have a renewed Faith in the power of healing.  PEACE be to ALL.

Dr. Mangala Ayre

Getting the Divine Guidance to Lead your Life

Lot of divine things are scattered around us and unnoticed by us. Daily and every minute, some divine message comes to you. Neither we don’t listen nor do we know about it.

Start listening to those messages

Make it a point to observe the conversation that happens in front of you, with an empathetic mind.

When you go to railway station next time, whatever is heard in your vicinity, just listen to them.

Understand those messages with the help of Bach Flower Remedies

Keep listening to whatever you hear. Try to understand the divine message behind every word spoken that is not addressed to you.

Take Bach Flower Remedies Vervain and Heather to understand those messages. Put the pills of Vervain and Heather in a bottle of water. 

Take it with you. Visit your neighbouring park and with a research attitude note down all the words that you hear. Sip the water now and then.

All words that you have captured, will give you a beautiful meaning to your life.

Alternatively, go to a temple and listen to the conversations that are going around.

Do this exercise, once in two months.

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