Let Others Not Cheat You

The Mother’s Red Balsam Flower

Managing mean-minded people, who wants to cheat you

If any person is mean-minded and not giving your money… One might have taken your money and he is dodging to give it. He might be avoiding you or evading you. Paste the picture on him (write his name on a paper and paste), and meditate on the flower.  Between brothers and sisters there is always a dispute whether to give the equal share to all-concerned. Then you could use this flower.

Getting donations

For voluntary agencies, to collect donations from people, they can have this picture or they could put the picture of Balsam in their letter-head. If you suggest to them, they might ask you to do it for them. For that we need to be generous.

If you visualize Balsam flower in your heart centre (chakra), you will attract people who are generous and who are not bargaining.

Making people fair to you

If anybody is unfair, aggressive, ill-tempered or spiteful, paste this picture on the name of the person (write the name in a piece of paper and paste the picture over it). Or visualize the flower in their heart centre. Thus, you can project the flowers on others the moment you think about them as they represent divine in this world.

Only Red Balsam has got the above-mentioned properties.

Sharing the property of the deceased brother, a case history

Recently a person died. That person has a brother and a sister. Within 10 days, a conflict arose between the living siblings of the deceased, over taking the property.

The sister came to me. At that time I didn’t have the color picture. Therefore, I printed the picture of the Balsam flower in black and white color and gave it to her. From the next day onwards, the quarrel about the property between them has stopped. It was resolved amicably.

Getting the generosity of others

I told her to always keep the picture with her. If you keep this flower in your heart centre, what is the message given to the other person? I am ready to give whatever you want.

Whenever you are ready to give what the other person has demanded you, then immediately the opposite person will stop his unfair demands.

Power to Achieve

Hibiscus

“The power needed in yoga is the power to go through effort, difficulty or trouble without getting fatigued, depressed, discouraged or impatient and without breaking off the effort or giving up one’s aim or resolution.”

– The Mother

When can you use this flower?

• For any obstacle or hindrance
• If there is a delay, obstruction, opposition or restriction, for example, if there is a delay in getting the offer.  What can you do then? You can take the picture and meditate upon it. 
• Just look at it for a while, if the project or something else is delayed. Let us say, marriage is delayed.
• If there is a stumbling block in your way, say a person is hindering, sabotaging or preventing you from doing anything…
• You are stopped from getting a promotion…“Let this girl need not get a job, a colleague might work towards it”

These can be categorized as obstruction, prevention and sabotage. In all these areas of problems, the Hibiscus flower can be used as a beautiful remedy.

The Hibiscus with this color only (Hawaii Hibiscus flower) has got that healing power. In fact, Mother has discussed about 15 varieties of Hibiscus flowers. Only the Hawaii Hibiscus flower has the qualities I have mentioned.

Have a look at the picture of the Hibiscus flower. You are blessed if you just get an opportunity to see it. Both the picture and pills of the flowers are available in the centre. The original flower is from Hawaii. Outside of the flower will be in yellowish orange, while its inside is red in color.

Bonding and Healing Relationships with Red Rose

My most respected teacher Balakumar,

I wish to share with you in detail the miracle that has occurred today in our home. I want this to be shared with all our friends and learners so that their faith in flowers and healing will be doubled.

Yesterday I called Naran at noon. My mother aged 84, has been in a very angry mood past 2 weeks. She has been rude to the helpers / attendant – who are threatening to leave. I tried all the healing methods taught to me by Naran and felt I must not bother him with this.

But yesterday when things went out of hand, I phoned him. Within a minute after listening to my long story, he just said, “Put (Bach Flower Remedies) Chicory, Holly and Willow for your mother. Place Red Rose flower in water in her room – maybe under her bed or wherever she sits. Change the Rose after every three days. All will be well. You will see the change”.

I have only Chicory at home. We live in Kanchipuram and I had no way of getting the other two flower essences.  I just began chanting them keeping my mother in mind. I prayed to the flowers to go to her and heal her. My husband and my friend Vasanthi – who stays upstairs, also began chanting.

At night Amma (mother) went to sleep saying she will call her bank tomorrow. See how much money she has and decide whether to continue living with us or move out on her own. She does not want the helpers but wants me to do everything for her. This is difficult since I have to go out of the house for work, travel etc for long periods sometimes and she is not able to do anything for herself. This was a very delicate situation since we cannot send our 84-year old mother away anywhere.

We fervently prayed at night and kept chanting of three Bach Flowers going. I filled her water bottle with Chicory and Walnut. In addition, I intended Holly and Willow, keeping my hands around the bottle. I also put Sun symbol on the bottle and desperately asked for help!

This morning she was still angry but quiet. I was wondering how and where to get Red Rose in Kanchipuram.  Vasanthi said she will ask teachers in school and tell me. I was sipping my first cup of tea outside, when I saw the flower seller with her basket calling at the neighbour’s house. I have seen her rarely. Today being Friday she was there. I saw only Saamandi flowers in her basket.  I was just about to ask her where to get Red Rose, when she looked at me and said, “Amma you never buy flowers. Do you want some red roses?” I was taken aback. She showed me five roses in her basket – all of them being red. I bought them, placed them in water and put them in mother’s room.

I felt a surge of gratitude in my heart for the kindness of the flowers. The power of intent and genuine prayer made them come home to us. It also made us aware that the UNIVERSE is HEARING us all the time.

 Amma had her bath and sat for her Pooja. She was still angry!

I was so surprised a little later when a teacher from the school came home and said, “Elder Sister, I am on my way to school, here are some Red Roses for your pooja. It is my wedding day today, Please bless us!” She brought 3 beautiful cut red roses! I placed them in water in front of (Aurobindo) MOTHER’S Picture where Amma comes and sits near the dining table.  I couldn’t speak for a while.

At 10 am, Amma called the banker and spoke with him. She called me to her room at 11 am.  She said, “I have talked with the banker, I realise that the interest I get monthly is not enough to sustain me anywhere. You are taking care of all my needs, feeding me so well, caring for me and even taking care of my servants. I am grateful to you and (my husband) Guru for this.  I will not go anywhere. I understand how difficult it is for you, when I get angry with the helpers. I shall try to be kind and will do what I can to make life easier for you.  In fact, I am a very practical person, so I want to continue living here. I want Guru and you to go wherever you need to. Don’t worry about me. I will manage with all the helpers you have provided”.

Please readers, I am NOT EXAGGERATING, This is EXACTLY what happened. If this is NOT the power of the flowers, then what is it? My Humble Pranams to Balakumar, our teacher, to the flowers and to the Healing Angels. I feel so humbled by this experience and also have a renewed Faith in the power of healing.  PEACE be to ALL.

Dr. Mangala Ayre

After my marriage, my wheezing increased…!

I am a student of Shobana, who teaches yoga in the Bach Flower Center.

Few months back, my cook’s daughter Hema got married. She visited my home a couple of days of back and mentioned to me that her wheezing has increased just after her marriage.

I consulted Shobana, who after hearing the details, asked me to give Hema, the Bach Flower Remedy Walnut. After taking the Walnut pills a couple of times, Hema’s condition got significantly improved.

Shobana explained to me later, as this has happened after Hema’s marriage – a transition in her life, Walnut has helped her to resolve her health issue.

– Lalitha

I received a Red Carpet Welcome

Dear Naran,

I am extremely happy to tell you that I had been selected for internship at Cummins Inc., Singapore. Thank you very much.

I was chanting (Bach Flower Remedies) Gorse and Clematis right from the beginning of the day. Everything went very well for me. Everybody greeted me with a smile and spoke to me in a friendly manner, right from the cab driver to the interviewer. It was as though, completely my day. I am extremely thankful to you.

I am also chanting Gentian and Wild Rose daily for good exam results.

Mani

Don’t Feel Sorry for Buying the Sari

How to Improve Your Decision Making Process

Buying Saris – a Common Example

Let us say, you are visiting Pothis – the cloth supermarket. You don’t know what clothes to choose – churidhar, saris etc. You are confused.

First Type of Confusion

Which section to go – first floor, second floor and so on?

Take Bach Flower Remedy Wild Oat. We don’t know where to go as we haven’t made up our mind on what to buy. Wild Oat will take you to the section you need to go.

Now you have decided to go to the sari section after chanting Wild Oat.

Second Type of Confusion

You like a particular sari. But you ask the opinion of your friends about your choice. This indicates the Bach Flower Remedy Cerato.

Third Type of Confusion

On the other hand, if you are confused about two different choices you have made, then it indicates the remedy Scleranthus.

In this type of confusion, your confusion is within yourself. Firstly you may pick up two saris; then you discard the first one and pick up another one; again you will get confused what to pick up between the two. You may discard the previous one and select one more. The confusion is always between the two, “This or That”, “Blue or Green” or “This Green or That Green.”

Now comes the pressure from outside

Make up your mind, the shop keeper says, as they are about to close the shop. You become impatient. Take Bach Flower Remedy Impatiens.

Sorry for the Sari

After buying a sari and when you come back home, if you think that you could have picked the other one and thus regretting your decision then it indicates Honey Suckle.

Non-stop Cursing

If you keep worrying, ‘why I made that mistake’ then it indicates White Chestnut.

Different Life Situations where you need to make decisions

1. Somebody wants to marry X. Are you planning to say yes? 2 to 5 times chant Honeysuckle and then say yes or no. You won’t regret your decision.
2. You have confusion between choosing this or that. You won’t be able to come to a decision and be indecisive. Take Scleranthus.
3. In an exam for a multiple-choice question, you think two choices are correct. You don’t know which one is the right one. Which one is the correct answer? Thanks to Scleranthus you will be able to choose the right answer.
4. Wild Oat is also for confusion. After completing schooling (plus two exam), different options are available. Out of 7 to 8 majors, the student is not able to select one. This is high-tech confusion.
5. You don’t know what remedy to choose. Can I combine all 38 remedies together? Take Wild Oat and give your patient Wild Oat also. Next day he will come with a few options, for example he might say, “I am absent minded”. Then we don’t need to worry about the choice of remedy. You can give him Chestnut Bud straight away.
6. Ask opinions from different people but will not come to a conclusion (Cerato).
7. A Scleranthus person will not consult others.

You don’t need to take remedies for these situations. Just chant them as per the need of the hour. It will work for you.

Communication Issues with Mom

Believe me! It is true! Hope you remember that last week I told that my mom was not speaking with me well. You had suggested me to draw a concentric circle and write my mother’s name with Agrimony and Willow written in the circles. I wrote that around 11.30 pm Saturday night. Every weekend I call and speak with her whether she speaks well or not. The same way the next day being Sunday, I called her around 10.00 pm. I could not believe my ears. She enquired my wellness and spoke with me for 30 mins!!! I was so excited and really wanted to thank you for that.
– Rama

Agrimony: Mother was not revealing what she was unhappy about.
Willow: Sudden aversion to interact/communicate with daughter

Naran S Balakumar’s 61st birthday Celebration

How Bach Flower Remedies, Reiki and Angels Helped in Smooth Conduct of the function

On His Own

Naran S. Balakumar celebrated his Shashtiaptha Poorthi (61st birthday celebrations) on 2nd August 2009 in Chennai peacefully and joyously. He sought the divine help of Bach Flowers and Reiki to ensure that this important event goes off without any glitches and hassles.

Please note that Balakumar’s only daughter is based in Singapore and most of his close relatives are elderly people. So, help available to Balakumar to organize an event of this importance and scale was limited.

It’s all about having a good start

As the event was getting finalized, he sought the help of Sweet Chestnut, Walnut and Hornbeam. He mixed this Bach Flower combination in the main water in the house so that everyone is in that energy field.

Ensuring that event goes off as planned

He changed this combination to Sweet Chestnut, Walnut and Gentian for the last 15 days leading to the day of Shashtiaptha Poorthi. He added Gentian to ensure that there is no regression to the plans and that the event goes off as planned.

Making sure that no untoward incident happens

He added Rescue remedy to the Sweet Chestnut, Walnut and Gentian combination for the penultimate day and the day of the event to ensure that there is no untoward incident (like a child getting hurt while playing etc.,) on the premises of the event.

He placed a glass of water filled Sweet Chestnut, Walnut, Gentian and Rescue Remedy at different corners of the Mandapam (venue) on the day of the event. He also invoked Reiki angels and Arch Angels like St. Germain for happy and smooth flow of the event.

How do you invoke angels? Merely request the angels to come & be present in the place/event of your choice and request the Angels to do their duty.

Everyone was filled with Joy and Energy

Thanks to the divine blessings of the Reiki Angels, Arch Angels, Bach flowers and the Gods invoked in the event, the Shashtiaptha Poorthi went off peacefully and joyously. Few people even felt the subtle difference in the energy field in the venue!

The owner of the Mandapam (venue) commented that he rarely sees functions and events that go off so smoothly like this one. He also offered to provide A/c in the hall and rooms at no extra cost.

Serve a tasty food

We always remember the taste of the food more than the event. So, Naran added the Sweet Chestnut, Walnut, Gentian and Rescue Remedy combination in the main water used for cooking. This helped in the food being very tasty, which was appreciated by most of the friends and relatives who had come for the function/event.

The caterer got quite a few enquiries so much so that he exhausted the visiting cards he was carrying! No stomach upset! Even after one month or two months, attendees talk about his Lunch.

No Negative Energy around whatsoever

The above Bach flower combination also helps in warding off evil eye and negative energy from the event and those involved in the event.

No wastage of food

The function happened over two days. During first day, he had organized a Homam at his place. On that day he was expecting around 100 guests. Though, only 60 turned up. So the food got wasted.

Next day was the Shashtiaptha Poorthi function. He had organized break fast for 100 and lunch for 400 guests. He was worried that food might go waste again. So he called upon the Animal Spirit Guide Wolf and prayed, ““Wolf! Please make sure that everybody eats well and no food gets wasted this time”.

100 guests came for the breakfast and 401 turned up for lunch. No food was left uneaten or wasted.

Angels and Divine are Waiting to Help You

Thus, you can also invoke the divine energy of Reiki Angels, Bach Flower, Animal spirits and Arch Angels to organize any important events/functions in your family/office and get benefited!

Getting Back Your Dues

Dear Naran

I once again come to you, looking for your support.  I have this Insurance Agent friend of mine to whom I had lent 1 lakh rupees by February this year. This money, I had withdrawn from my Credit Card and lent it to him on the assurance that he will pay back the full money with whatever the interest within 3 months.  

However, it’s been almost 10 months since the money has been lent and now, he is not paying the CC dues nor he is giving me back the money to pay in full.  The interests have doubled now, and he is not picking up my calls even nowadays.  I don’t know what to do, I’m already under tremendous financial stress on the personal front and I am not able to digest the fact that this good friend of mine is trying to cheat me.  

Please help me with your insights on how I can get the money back from this friend. Thanking you in anticipation.

David Francis

You can chant the names of the Bach Flower Remedies – Sweet Chestnut, Rock Water, Chestnut Bud, Willow and Pine two hundred times, for three times a day.

Take a small piece of paper. Write your name and his name. Draw a circle around the name. Draw five concentric circles around the first circle. Write the name of the flower remedies in the gap between two circles, one name per gap. Keep it somewhere in your house. Daily see this paper and just read out the names once.

Also, download a squirrel picture and keep it under pillow. Let us see what happens.

Naran

Dear Naran,

It’s really amazing – I wrote to you and when I was about to go to a meeting I got your response. I just started chanting the names suggested by you on my way to the meeting and while coming back as well.  What I see on my return is a cheque for Rs.35000/- sent across by the person as part payment with an assurance that the balance will be paid before the end of this month.  

Now, I have another problem – the dues from him has actually doubled and I don’t know how to ask him to pay me that – while he has paid the minimum dues in the credit card for the initial 3 months – post that I have been making the minimum dues from my end.    

I thank you profusely for this wonderful remedy that you had suggested.  I shall continue chanting the remedy that you have suggested already – and if you have any other remedy for me to get the balance amount in full it will be really nice.

Thanks and regards

David Francis

Fix your headache

This is with regard to my sister in law who was suffering from a headache for a week or more especially the last couple of days. Medication did not help her one bit and she ultimately had to go to the hospital to check her BP, etc.  It was all normal and she continued taking pain killers.  None of that helped.

I told her when she called me from Coimbatore to call Naran and talk to him – to simply tell him what was on her mind.  She had lost her brother just a few days ago. I also told her to go ahead and talk, though she had never met him, and even if she did not have faith in Flower Therapy.

This was around 9 p.m. and when I did not hear from her after that call, I presumed the poor thing had gone to bed with her headache.  She called me early the next morning and said, “I cannot believe it!  I spoke to Naran and only briefly explained the issues.  He told me to chant the names of 2 flowers.  I did and I realized to my amazement that the headache had vanished with just 3 repetitions of those divine flowers!” 

The next morning when she felt the headache starting to set in, she again chanted the names and it went off.  She also mentioned how she had had a good nights sleep after so many days and that too without sleeping pills which the doctor had prescribed for the trauma she was undergoing. 

 She told me I have to fix an appointment in a weeks’ time as she wants to meet Naran.  

– Sneha

The Bach Flower Remedies chanted were Agrimony and White Chestnut. Since she said that she had continuous headache, White Chestnut was suggested. Why Agrimony is prescribed in headaches? Headaches are normally the physical expression of inner turmoil, which indicates Agrimony. The person with inner turmoil will say I want to be peaceful. This is what she said, when she spoke to me.

– Naran